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Restoring

As I prepared for Easter this year, I was eager to make it special.  I have been excited for our plans.  Even with the world in topsy turviness, our lives have been relatively unchanged.. well our day to day lives.

Some of the Easter preparation was easy.  
  • collect some onion skins.  done.
  • plant some wheat berries.  done.
  • find some pretty ribbon.  done.
  • cut some branches of a tree and bring them inside to force buds.  done.
  • dig out the Easter basket of eggs and decorations.  done.
  • plant the Easter lily bulbs.  done. 
  • crochet some Easter story figures... doing in spare minutes... and into the wee hours.
  • find the egg cups.... oh dear....

I knew I had some, but where the egg cups were was a definite mystery.

I had a ceramic white one with a cute little chick carrying an umbrella but I didn't want that.. I was looking for my silver ones.  They had a more distinguished look to them.

When I found them I was a little dismayed that they had become quite tarnished in storage.  I had recently read of "43 Uses for Wood Ash".  One of the uses was to polish silver.  

Did I dare?

What if it ruined them?

They were pretty beat up looking... rubbing them with a paste of wood ash certainly couldn't make them worse.. and I have a plentiful supply of wood ash.

so...

I gave it a try.


I was impressed.

I wish that my first thoughts as I polished up the silver egg cups had been about the incredible power of restoring something dull and imperfect to a shiny usefulness.  
I wish that my first thoughts had been about how like Easter this polishing was.. Resurrection over death; Restoration over dullness.  Washing away sin and leaving a luster of peace in its place.  
I wish that my first thoughts had been of scripture that states, Isaiah 61:3 "... to give unto them beauty for ashes.... that he might be glorified.".... but I'm no scriptorian and the only thing remotely scriptorial that would come to me would be, "dust to dust, ashes to ashes..."

However, the thought that did come to my head and became stuck in my head, was a song..

from the movie.. Chitty, Chitty, Bang, Bang.

"Up from the ashes... grow the roses of success."

It was indeed out of the ashes that the restoring of the sweet egg cups came about.  So although, it may not have been a reverent and deeply profound spiritual moment leading up to my Easter... I did find beauty in the moment of restoring the egg cups for my Easter 'mantle' display.  It made me appreciate my display just a little more.


After enjoying my moment of 'using ashes to create something of beauty, I opted to only polish one.  Now it is a reminder... especially at this time of pandemic, uncertainty and worries... that out of difficult times,
 there is hope... there is beauty... there is kindness... there is peace.... 

I heard this time described as a pause.  An opportunity to reflect and choose what we will decide to allow to return when the 'normalcy' returns.  Choose to look for the hope, beauty, kindness, peace or the panic, uncertainty, worry.  That which you search for... you will find.

Look for the 'roses of success' that are 'growing out of the ashes' of Covid19. 


And take a moment to enjoy these delightful eggs in my silver egg cups.

Laundry

I realized while writing the post about my systems that even writing and thinking about laundry was therapeutic for me. I love a day of laundry tasks. Gathering, sorting, spot treating, washing, hanging, ironing, folding, putting away. It's so satisfying.

If I had lived in the era of laundresses, I would have volunteered.

Unfortunately, when we bought this house I had to make a concession or two from what I would have thought ideal. The ideal laundry room is an open bright room preferably with a window. It should be in the main area of the home and also be near the door to the backyard. There should be counter space, room for an ironing board to left up at all times, shelves for folded laundry in baskets ready for delivering.  There needs to be space for sorting bins and and shelves for laundry equipment (soaps, brushes, spot treatments, bucket for soaking etc.)... an ultimate laundry room would have it's own sink for spot treatment and hand washing.  Another ultimate inclusion would be area to hang things indoors when inclement weather doesn't allow for outdoor hanging.   

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I have never actually had an ideal laundry facility available to me.... only in dreams.  Growing up the laundry area was adequate, but it was in the basement of a four story home.

In college I was introduced to laundromat type facilities.  While multiple machines is nice, the carting it around and babysitting it, without personal facilities was not to my liking.

My first house on the ranch had hookups right in the kitchen!  We quickly found a used set of washer and dryer for a screaming deal $75.00 for the set!  and installed them.  I affectionately referred to them as my poo brown set.  Obviously they were brown!  Not that the colour indicates anything when it comes to performance.  That set was awesome!  Having them in the kitchen was fantastic.  Even better was that the kitchen had a door to the outdoors..  to a small deck next to a clothes line!  It was heaven... until cattle came by... or until my mother visited.  (small mishap with a cast iron skillet and Pat's white church shirt that really should be it's own post!)  With a sink in the kitchen available for special attention items, I became an avid fan of washer's in the kitchen!

We moved all too soon to a house in town.  Fortunately the laundry room was right off the kitchen in the mudroom.  Although there was a doorway to the outdoors, it never opened because it didn't really exist.  It was boarded up and had a thick sleeping bag stapled up over it for extra insulation!  Not ideal... also there was a large window in the room... directly behind a large bush, so no light came in!  It had a sloping cement floor and no heat.  But convenience was good.  Lots of space and good cupboard space.

We moved to SLC and lived in a small town house without facilities.  We brought our poo brown machines anyway.  Patrick rigged up a washer hook up with hoses that could be draped across the kitchen so I did have a machine to use at my convenience and again it was in the kitchen, but thanks to the draping hoses, laundry became a late at night endeavor.  A tiny apartment isn't the best place to hang clothes to dry until I discovered the hanging method in the bathroom from the shower rod... Showers had to be scheduled around the laundry drying.

In our first house that we owned the laundry room was in the basement.  And it was only a small closet with space enough for only the washer and dryer!  My used set of poo brown machines had been split up shortly after we moved to the apartment since we just didn't have space to store the dryer that we couldn't use so we only had the trusty washer.  We were given an avacado green older dryer shortly after we moved in.  I loved that the way to open the door was a foot pedal.  I was so out of the habit of using the dryer that I still didn't use it much.  The small laundry closet had large doors that had to be opened and closed constantly as I carried baskets up and down the stairs.  Patrick ran a clothes line outside and between the outside line and now two bathrooms with shower rods, clothes were still hung to dry!

The day my 50 year old poo brown washer died was a very sad day!  But fate smiled on me and I happened upon a used white washer that was fairly new.  It only lasted a few months before it died.  New doesn't equal good in my books.  I was looking for another work horse!  The next washer was also white (which I really do prefer) and worked satisfactorily.

This brings me to our current home.  When looking for our house, I saw some lovely laundry rooms... however not in houses that we could afford or in ones that had adequate bedrooms or decent kitchens or large yards.  It was very difficult to satisfy all of our criteria when looking for a house.  So.. we got the large yard, enough bedrooms and a decent kitchen but again we only have a closet off the hallway for a laundry room..  I've bantered about with Patrick remodeling the master bedroom into the laundry room and giving us a small nook for a bed since I only sleep in my bedroom but spent many quality waking hours with my laundry... He isn't sold on the idea ... yet!

The laundry closet, while small, is upstairs off the main hall and that does make a huge difference compared to a basement laundry.  It is also close enough to the bathroom for spot treating and soaking and hand washing.  I have the worlds best clothes line off the back deck and have some very innovative indoor hanging systems now at my disposal.  I hadn't realized when we bought this house that the 'wasted space' above the stair well could be put to such usefulness.  My biggest complaints currently are the lack of sorting space, difficult to reach shelving (although thank you Patrick for putting shelves in!) and no where to set up my ironing board!  A reverse laundry chute has also crossed my mind... the kids rooms are all downstairs so a chute sending up would be handy.  Patrick has looked into locations for a dumbwaiter, but for the amount of work to put it in... the exercise going up and down the stairs is good for us!

As far as machines themselves go... I currently have a lovely front loading energy efficient washer that was donated to my laundry fetish by a lady who decided to get a new set when her dryer went on the fritz.  She actually asked if Patrick would help haul it away... he did.. he just hauled it right on over here!  I donated my old work horse to Jim with a set up similar to that in my first apartment with the old hoses dangling across his kitchen... He also has a clothes line!

The more I think about it the more I think I have a solid argument for my master bedroom / laundry overhaul...   

The ramblings of a lunatic laundry lady!

P.S.  I taught Derek to match and fold socks... He seems as excited as I about laundry so I let him have a menial task.  I don't even give my children the opportunity to fall in love with the glories of laundry, because I keep it all to myself...

System Malfunctions

I have systems. It's how I function. My systems make sense to me. Like a laundry sorter. Whites go in one bin and colours in the other. Some people even break it down further. I'd be one of those. Whites, lights, darks, diapers, baby clothes, daddy's work grubbies, jeans, towels, delicates or hand washing. Maybe I over sort. But that's because I love to do laundry.  (I blame my mother for my love of laundry... I think it rubbed off)  But the point here is systems.  Systems that work.

My children were born on different days of the week so if a choice arises on say a Tuesday, it would be up to Sarah to choose since she was born on a Tuesday. Now it happened that Miles was born on a Sunday, so for a while he opted to switch for Mondays. With his new love for baking he has returned to Sundays so that there will be more time for it.

Another system is one I struggled with for a while. I couldn't keep up with whose bedding was up for washing next. with 7 plus people contributing to the daily mountain of laundry, I needed a system to guarantee that I wasn't neglecting one bed over and over. So a system. Each child has a birth date. On the month anniversary they bring up their bedding. For example Miles brings his up o the fourth of each month and Caleb on the 27th and so on.  Even better than the system is the fact that recently Caleb had to choose a new chore for a scout project that he could be responsible for.  This was the one I turned over to him!  I'm so very generous. 

Bring on the systems. When Whittaker was born another system was needed to settle the constant squabbles over who got to hold him next. It worked beautifully. Caleb was born on an odd day and Sarah on an even. Duncan and Miles didn't mind being left out of this rotation because the rule is if either of them wish to hold the baby they can. Neither ever want to hold longer than five minutes anyway. It might have something to do with the fact that I don't let them hold him standing and they get bored after a few minutes.

But things are falling apart. Even with the systems. The kids are stripping their beds on schedule, but I'm behind in the laundry so sometimes the sheets pile up in front of the machine waiting for a turn. Bedtime comes and poor kids have a naked bed, and wet sheets. Caleb and Sarah are bickering constantly with each other about what is acceptable behavior on their off days concerning how much interaction the other can have with Whittaker. Or if the other is caught holding or playing with him on the off day I definitely hear about it.  I've come close to banning any interaction with Whittaker.  Miles has begun to complain that he wishes he had more time with Whittaker and there's not a day in between odds and evens left for him! 

I'm being accused of only doing fun things with Miles since he wasn't born on a school day. Mutiny abounds. I'd like to be the one who goes AWOL, but where is that and how do I get there. Will I eventually be discovered?  Does someone else do the cooking?

Systems, shystems!!